10 Habits of highly successful people that average people lack

10 Habits of highly successful people that average people lack

We all know that our habits form our character . If we really want to go ahead in our lives, we need to follow the habits of those people who have been truly successful.Let’s take a peek- a - boo I the lives of those people and draw comparisons-

1. Reading daily vs watching TV

People who have made a mark for themselves have this daily commitment to reading daily. They read a lot. They prefer to miss their meals but they will never miss reading. Even if they are extremely busy, they find time to read. While commuting too, they listen to audio books. 

On the other hand, an average person sits in front of TV and simply vile away his time.

2. Setting goals vs What are goals 😏

     All the successful people set goals and strive to achieve them. They are completely focused and avoid all the distractions from their lives. That is why they are achievers and the biggest chunk of their success is all about setting goals and deadlines and reviewing them. On the other hand, average person just lives his life as it comes. No setting goals, no focus 😏

3. Showering people with compliments Vs criticising 

    Successful people encourage others around them by complimenting them. However, their praises are genuine and are given to uplift and motivate others to perform better. They are never intended to flatter or they never sugarcoat their words just to please others. On the contrary , average people find it hard to appreciate others or their efforts, but they are quite capable of finding faults with others or their work .

4. Embrace change Vs fear change

    All the successful people believe that change is the only constant , so they are ready to embrace changes. They are quick to adapt and adjust which average people find very difficult to do, They fear change as they want to always remain in their comfort zone .

5. Forgive Vs hold grudges 

      All the successful people have the tendency to forgive others. Not because they are all big- hearted but because they know the futility of holding ill- feelings against others as eventually these feelings will harm them and their health, so they quickly forgive and forget and move on with their lives. On the other hand, average people find it difficult to forgive others and tend to hold grudges and if possible try to get

 

6.Talk about ideas Vs Talk about people 

Successful people are so busy with improving themselves that they don’t judge people around them. They know that they themselves are not perfect, so they stop looking for perfection in others. If they talk, they talk about ideas whereas average people talk about / bitch about other people.

7. Continuous learning Vs they think they know it all

     Successful people are learners throughout their lives. They are so humble and down to earth that they thirst they have plenty of things to learn, on the contrary, average people are complacent with their lot. They think they know everything and hate

8. Take responsibility Vs blame others

      Successful people never shirk away from responsibilities. They shoulder responsibility with complete dedication, on the other hand, average people blame others if things go wrong.

9. Great self- discipline Vs No discipline 

      All greatly successful people are epitomes of discipline and self control. They lead their lives with such habits like waking up early in the morning, daily exercise, walk and so on that their entire life is benefitted . On the contrary, average people lack will power to bring about desired changes in their lives. They have no discipline whatsoever.

10. Obsessed with self development Vs obsessed with comforts and luxuries

         Successful people are obsessed with their self- development and don’t mind to spend their money and resources to upgrade their education and skills. They hire coaches to train themselves to perfection whereas average people spend money on buying luxuries and comforts for themselves.

The MOST POWERFUL law of attraction techniques to manifest your desires

Law of Attraction Techniques that are miraculous 

If life has not been all that kind to you and you keep on wondering what has gone wrong with you even when you have been doing daily rituals like- affirmations, visualisations, meditation and so on ....just review all your activities. Are you putting your emotions to your affirmations and visualisation . Ask and it is given. It gets as simple as that. Still people make it more complicated by overdoing it or having doubts about its manifestation. Trust the universe and feel that you have already received your desire. This will put you in such a frequency that you can easily receive what is being given by the universe.There are certain techniques which can help you to manifest your desires-

1. Scripting

If you really want to fast forward your desires and dreams, initiate the process of scripting . Write the story of your life, the way you want your life to be. You can dream and visualise whatever you want in your life and put all your dreams as if you are living your dreams. This technique works like magic. Write and read your script with all the emotions.

2. Create a vision board

Creating a vision board may seem like a lot of work but it’s worth it. You just need a soft board and images of your dream life- affluent lifestyle, money, health, ideal partner, flourishing business/ dream career...whatever your dreams are , find images on net or cut the images from magazines and put them on your vision board. Every morning and evening, you look at your vision board and visualise your dream life . Feel the happiness, joy , ecstasy that you experience when all your desires are manifested. Feel the joy right at the moment.

3. Maintain a vision/ gratitude book 

     Everyday , be grateful for all the blessings in your life. Write all the things that are a huge blessing in your life- partner, children, parents, siblings, friends, colleagues, house, car and all the things that are in your life and make you richer and happier. Write about all those things also which are not in your life but you want them in your life.

4. Draw a picture of your dream life

Drawing a picture of your dream life is like visualisation. The only difference is that you create a real image instead of a mental image. This technique can work wonders if you do it with your emotions.

5. Maintain your bucket list

Just thinking about what you want to accomplish or putting them on paper are two different things. If you put your desires and intentions on paper, they have more chances of getting accomplished. Try this technique to believe it.

6. Give away all your problems to universe

     Try it to believe it. If you are bogged down by numerous problems in your life, just visualise collecting all your problems and put them in a balloon and let the balloon fly away in the sky taking away all your problems and worries. You have handed over all your problems to the universe. Trust the universe to tackle all your problems.

 

Habits healthy people follow

10 Habits healthy people follow

Have you ever wondered how healthy people managed to stay healthy? Do they have some magic wand to create health? What do they do to stay motivated to maintain their health? Are their any shortcuts to get healthy  and more importantly stay healthy? 

After analysing their routine and their habits, we can infer that they have incorporated certain habits seamlessly in their routine that help them tremendously to always stay healthy. If we all wish to stay healthy and fit, we may take a clue from their routine which can give us insights in their habits . 

Let’s enlist all the habits that take their health and fitness to the next level




1. Excercise
     Healthy people give great importance to excercises like- running, walking briskly, swimming, aerobics, yoga . This keeps them stay fit.

2. Make plans

     Healthy people stay healthy because they make plans to eat healthy and follow healthy lifestyle. This is not only therapeutic, but also quite effective in keeping them ahead of all the temptations and cravings.

3. Sleep well

     All the healthy people take at least 7 hours of sleep daily. It is scientifically proven that if you don’t get your beauty sleep well, you will end up gorging like a pig and you bloat terribly leading to obesity and ill- health. 

4. Meditation 

    The power of meditation can’t be understated. If you can calm your mind, your body will relax and be free of anxiety. This helps us to improve our concentration and focus.

5.  Listen to music 

      Listening to music can have a great effect on your body and mind. When your mind is anxious and tense, you listen to soft music, your mind will calm down and your body will relax.

6. Get up early 

     All the healthy people have the habit of getting up early. The benefits of getting up early are numerous. The most amazing benefit is - in the wee hours of early morning, the distractions are minimal. Your mind and body are relaxed after a good night’s sleep, do they work better.

7. Avoid Alcohol 

   By all means, avoid alcohol. It is really terrible for your health- physical and mental.So , why do we waste our health and wealth in consuming alcohol.

8. Laugh More

    All the healthy people find time to laugh heartily . It is so important to laugh as they say if you laugh, you excercise your facial muscles and laughter ,as such, is the best medicine.

9.Have fun

   All the healthy people stay healthy as they don’t forget to have fun. They are playful and fun to be around.

10. Act like a child

In the process of growing up , we become cynical and sarcastic. We are supposed to be acting responsibly and maturely. However , in this process, healthy people act like a child. They don’t take them seriously.

     

How to increase your vocabulary

How to increase your vocabulary

There are four ways to learn a language-listening, speaking, reading and writing. If you really want to       Have a better command over the language, you must read and read a lot. You can start reading with magazines, newspapers, short stories, film scripts and novels. Find something that interests you. Keep a notebook and pen handy and note down all the words that you don’t know. Use a dictionary to find out the words which are new to you. Find their meanings and use them into your sentences. This will help you to retain the words.

Actively use the new words in your writing, Writing is another important aspect of learning new words and using them in your day today life. Write whatever you find interesting to write- paragraph, short story, letter, journal...anything and everything you can write about.

Learning English is a skill and if you patiently practise it regularly, that day won’t be far, when people start acknowledging your efforts and you will definitely hog all the limelight.

Hacks to study better and smarter

Students, if you need to get better marks/ grades in exams , there are certain study hacks that can help you to focus better and improve your performance. These are time tested tips that can sky rocket your performance.
Firstly, if you want to have a better understanding of your study- material, pretend to teach someone. That someone can be you, yourself. This will help you to have a better understanding of the concept and you will be able to retain the information for a longer time.

Secondly, if there is some topic that is really difficult to learn or retain, try to learn it between 4 am and 6 am as this time the distractions are minimal , your mind can focus better and retain longer.

Thirdly, if you speak your notes loudly, you will be able to retain them for a longer time . The bonus is your concentration will be definitely better and you will not be distracted.

Fourthly, make a habit to write down what you learn. Studies have shown that writing helps you to retain seven times more than if you only learn orally.

Fifthly , take a 10 minute break after studying for 30- 50 minutes, this will help you to retain better and study effectively.

Sixthly, if you have learnt some new concept, you can teach your friend/ friends and answer their questions, you will be able to retain your knowledge and you will have better understanding of the concept.

Seventhly, whatever new concept or lesson you have learned, try to go through your notes within one day as this will help you to retain and understand better.

Apart from that if you think, your mind gets easily distracted by social media or calls/ messages, keep your mobile locked away or better, give to your mother till your exams are over.

Moreover, when you are doing homework late at night , listen to light instrumental music as it will help you not to get bored and it will not distract you like music with lyrics.

These study hacks can prove to be a great help for anyone who wants to study better and retain for a longer time.

How To Tackle Failure in Your Life 🤗

The irony of our education system is that we prepare ourselves with success, but we are hardly prepared for failures in our lives. So when we fail , many of us lose all our hopes, feel depressed, frustrated and think of even taking extreme steps . We don’t want to face the world. We think that people will tag us as ‘ losers’. They will laugh at us and humiliate us. Let’s face it. We all must have faced failures at one or other time in our lives. Yet we still can’t face failures.

What should be done? Is failure the end of our world? Or we can learn something worthwhile from our failures. First and foremost, we must accept that we failed. We should not remain in denial mode and blame people and circumstances for our failures. Then , we must introspect why we failed. Thirdly , we must learn from our failures and mistakes. Then we can grow out of our failures and pave our way to success.

Be the master of your own life

Stop playing a victim in your life. Never blame your parents, partners , other people or circumstances in your life. If till now, those people or situations have controlled your life, then you are responsible for it. Remember, nobody else but you will change your life for the better. How to take back that control of your life?
1. Never play victim card
2. Distance yourself from negativity and people who bog you down.
3. Surround yourself with people who encourage you.
4. Practise self- love.
5. Find your passion
6. Help other people.

If your mind can conceive it, you can achieve it

They say thoughts are the things. If your mind can conceive things, you can surely achieve them. That’s how there was a time we could only imagine to go to space, now we have achieved it as we first dreamt to achieve it. 

Do you believe in creating your own reality? I do believe it and it is so scary to think that if you have the habit of thinking self-sabotaging thoughts, you can very well bring them in your reality. So ,this means that we are the masters of our own destiny. Let’s not ruin our lives by being negative or unhappy, let’s all strive to make our life the truest expression of ourselves by being happy and blissful.

Three questions to bring radical change in your life🤗

The three questions to change your life for the better are:
Question 1 . Who am I ? What is my life’s purpose?
This question does not require you to answer about your profession or the varied roles you play in your life. It expects you to answer this question by delving deep in yourself and finding out what do you think you are? For instance: I think I am a spiritual being who is going through a human experience.
Question 2: How can I serve others or add value to the lives of others?
Believe me, instead of looking for just being famous or successful, look for serving others. Success is the byproduct of service and significance.
Question 3: How can I be excellent in my chosen field?
If you constantly strive to set the benchmark higher and higher for yourself, you will become your own brand ambassador. Excellence requires no introduction.

Keep on asking yourself these questions so that you become the best version of your highest potential. 😇

Everyday unfolds new possibilities

Who says ‘ Life is mundane and boring ‘. If you feel it is, it definitely is. However, you are responsible to make it that way. Your life is the sum total of all your seconds, minutes, hours, days , weeks, months and years spent . Your each day spent gives the clear indication how are you going to spend your entire life. If you think, you have just wasted your day, you are going to waste your life like that. So if you want to take control of your life, start taking control of your days. 

Make law of attraction work for you🤗

Do you believe in law of attraction? Do you think you tried affirmations, visualisation, vision boards and whatever you possibly could, but to no avail. You have started giving up on this ‘mumbo jumbo ‘ stuff. You think you have been cheated, lied upon , you were made to believe in a law which was actually just a theory. Since law doesn’t fail, it can’t be a law. You have given up on “ The Secret “ or about to give up.
While all the practitioners of this law rave about their astonishing results using the law, they have not told you the entire truth.  The truth is that for the law to work, you need to feel the emotion. For instance, if you are affirming to be wealthy and prosperous and you are even visualising yourself to be rich , you need to start feeling how it feels to be rich.  Only if you include feelings with your affirmations and visualisation, you will get your desired results.

Are you truly alive?

A question I wish to ask all the readers , “ Do you think you are truly alive? Are you consciously living your life according to your own plans or life just happens to you? I think most of us in the frenzy of our rat race , we , somehow , let life or other people or circumstances call the shots . We just     Let those slip away when we could control our life and take charge. We are guilty of living life unconsciously or let life rule us . We play victims in the game of life and then we just complain that life has been unfair.
Where is the role of free will in our lives if we don’t actively seek control of our lives. A few people will say that destiny is the greatest master of their lives. I will suggest instead of blaming the destiny , try to be proactive and do actions without ever thinking about the fruits of your actions. Let’s all make this our mantra, “ Karma jar, phal ki icchhaa mat kar”. I you lose your attachment to results, you definitely will perform to the best of your abilities.

Top 10 money making ideas

Let’s crack the secret code to riches

Let’s acknowledge it we all need money for our needs and luxuries. While going through Internet, I realised that this was the most searched topic on Google ( gosh!). We all seem to have this obsession with money and how to make money . I think, we all can very well relate to this topic as money is definitely our one BIG concern. 

I have jotted down a few ways to make money and be wealthy. These are:

# 1 . Start your business 

         You can start any business ranging from groceries to clothing or providing some service or raw      material . The choices are unlimited. 

# 2. Become a professional 

        This calls for education in the specific field. For instance, a doctor or or a lawyer or an accountant earns money by giving their expert advice and rendering their service. 

#3  Become a blogger

       If writing is very much your style, you can earn money through blogging. Just research on the niches which people find interesting and select your niche, research and write. You need to monetise your blog and as the traffic in your blog increases , this will raise your chances of getting paid for your blog.

  # 4 .Become a Vlogger

        You can choose to post your interesting videos on YouTube and such other sites and once your viewership increases, you can monetise your channel and as more people subscribe to your channel, more and more companies would like to advertise through your channel, this will increase your earnings.

# 5.  Earn through rentals

    If you own some real estate property, you can earn your passive income through rentals.

      

  # 6. Write a book 

      If you think, you can share your knowledge with the world through a book, then go ahead and write a book. Nowadays you can save yourself from the hassle of writing a book and finding a publisher for your book. Write an ebook and let amazon do the rest for you. As your sale of the book increases, your earnings will also increase multifold.

 # 7 Start your online business 

        You don’t need to have physical store, start your own virtual store and as you get orders , you can earn money by selling the item.

# 8 Teach online 

      You should be at least graduate for this . There are many sites like Udemy where you can register as a faculty and teach for the course in which you specialise.

  # 9 Earning through paid surveys

        There are many sites that let you earn while you answer their surveys.

   # 10. Earn while you shop

         Certain debit and credit card companies give you points while you shop.

Live wealthy for a lifetime

Let’s face it , each one of us dreams of living a life of our dreams. We want to have plentiful money,t dream house, the BIG car(s), holidays in dream destination and so on . How many of us can fulfill these dreams? What if I say it’s all possible. It’s EASY. The questions is of if you believe in it , you will have it. I manifested my dream job , my car, my house using the laws  of attraction . They do work. We all can be wealthy if we know how to manifest our desires. Be with me as I will unravel these mysteries one by one.