Mind your mind!

"The mind in its own place and in itself can make a heaven of hell or hell of heaven"(extract from Miton's "Paradise Lost").
Prophet David was candid enough when he wrote "as one thinketh in his heart ,so is he"Quite true!
They say that you can conquer the world if you can conquer your mind.This highlights our mind's enormous power.Everything is posible for a man who believes he can and contrary to this nothing seems to be working for those who think they can't.So it all boils down to straight and simple fact that our own mind can rewrite our destiny .We can bring a dramatic chaange in the outcomes if we know how can we master our mind.
Most of the psycho-analysts and psychologists hypnotise their patients so as to know more about the patient's case history.Have you ever wondered how do they do this apparently difficult job?
The answer lies very much within the realms of our mind.
Who can deny Emerson's unforgettable words-
"Great men are those who see that thoughts rule the world"

perseverance pays!

I find it absolutely right.when you find your dificulties have increased or you are about to give it up as you are losing your heart,just hang on because this means your struggles are about to vanish away. This is a fact and proven one that most people give up after struggling a lot because their patience is lost and those who win win because of their "never say die"attitude.

Are you feeling guillty?

Forgive yourself!
Sometimes we feel guilt-ridden owing to not taking proper care of our parents or because we were so busy accumulating wealth that we forget about our children's annual function and then we feel like punishing ourselves. We feel guilty.Every person in this world is guilty in one way or the other way.But,happiness and joyful state of mind evade us unless we learn to be free and learn to be joyous.we have to learn to let go if someone is no more with us.we have to consciously make an effort to forgive ourselves and others.Once we are fre ,no fear or guilt will trouble us any longer!
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Sharpen your mind

your mind is your biggest ally.You have to make sure that your mind is never allowed to feed on junk diet(for instance -cheap novels,thrilers,stories of crime,murder).Rather just like you make sure that your body is given healthy food to eat,similarly yuor mind also wil remain healthy and fit if you make it a point to feed it with worthwhile stuff like professsional magazines related to your field(career).Try reading good books.Also try to practise meditation,spend 30 minutes daily in quiet ,undisturbed thinking.
One can be quiet,calm,serene,unrufffledby circumstances,strong,well-poised,Wel-groomed with Charismatic personality.For that one has to make conscious effforts,investing everyday.

Life is an echo!

Life is an echo,
all comes back,
so give the life,
the best you have.
I truly believe in this as in my life i have seen from my personal experience thata life has its strange way of dealing with people and things.No matter how much you feel like doing bad or thinking ill of others .you should never do it as you will get the same emotion or something bad done to you by others.

How to smile when we really want to cry?

Has this ever happened with you when you felt like crying but you had to smile b'coz you can't show your vulnerability to the whole world.
How does it feel when you felt used and cheated.you helped somebody in good faith and the other callously took advantage of you and then got complelely oblivious of your presence.
That really hurts,but that's how life teaches lesson.you get to realize not to take everybody at their face value.Appearances are indeed deceptive.
Instead of regretting about making those mistakes,lets learn from them and next time we will find ourselves in a better position to judge those people and keep a safe distance from them.But that doesn't mean that we stop helping all the people who are in need.Just be a little more careful
and learn to say no !

Forgive and Forget!

How many of us can move ahead in our lives without carrying the baggage of our pasts.No matter how much we try to negate it ,yhe fact remains that somewhere through the womb of our past our present has been born and for many of us even our future depends on how much we let our past affect our future.the choice is entirely up to us.
How can we come out of those ghosts of our past who desperately chase us and somewhere we give in letting them win, as a consequence to which, we find ourselves always lamenting and cursing others for whatever wrong we perceived happened to us.
Are we not equally guilty for ruining our present and future cribing about our past.what's the solution.let go of the past .Right from the bottom of your heart forgive those people for whatever wrong they had done to you not for them,but for your own peace of mind and for your good health.Believe me your life will be much better and sorted out.

Enough is enough!

How to know when to say "enough is enough". Being good is not synonymous with being weak.when you perceive that people are rather taking advantange of your concerned and caring attitude,draw the line.learn to know the diference between who genuinely values you and needs you or who is simply using you.Don't make yourself so vulnerable and gullible that people start perceiving you weak whenever you have to stand up for yourself,do it.As you only are responsible whether you should be considered "one with a golden heart " or "one with no brains".