Hate to say -Goodbye!

How it feels when we have no choice left but to move on in our lives leaving many people who mattered to you behind because life moves on!
It's sad but still it's true and nobody can deny this very fact that sometimes no matter how much you feel for some people in your lives,certain decisions are to be taken which for the time being appear to be too harsh but in the long run they are for your own good and for the people who matter.Don't you agree?

Mind your mind!

"The mind in its own place and in itself can make a heaven of hell or hell of heaven"(extract from Miton's "Paradise Lost").
Prophet David was candid enough when he wrote "as one thinketh in his heart ,so is he"Quite true!
They say that you can conquer the world if you can conquer your mind.This highlights our mind's enormous power.Everything is posible for a man who believes he can and contrary to this nothing seems to be working for those who think they can't.So it all boils down to straight and simple fact that our own mind can rewrite our destiny .We can bring a dramatic chaange in the outcomes if we know how can we master our mind.
Most of the psycho-analysts and psychologists hypnotise their patients so as to know more about the patient's case history.Have you ever wondered how do they do this apparently difficult job?
The answer lies very much within the realms of our mind.
Who can deny Emerson's unforgettable words-
"Great men are those who see that thoughts rule the world"

perseverance pays!

I find it absolutely right.when you find your dificulties have increased or you are about to give it up as you are losing your heart,just hang on because this means your struggles are about to vanish away. This is a fact and proven one that most people give up after struggling a lot because their patience is lost and those who win win because of their "never say die"attitude.

Are you feeling guillty?

Forgive yourself!
Sometimes we feel guilt-ridden owing to not taking proper care of our parents or because we were so busy accumulating wealth that we forget about our children's annual function and then we feel like punishing ourselves. We feel guilty.Every person in this world is guilty in one way or the other way.But,happiness and joyful state of mind evade us unless we learn to be free and learn to be joyous.we have to learn to let go if someone is no more with us.we have to consciously make an effort to forgive ourselves and others.Once we are fre ,no fear or guilt will trouble us any longer!
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Sharpen your mind

your mind is your biggest ally.You have to make sure that your mind is never allowed to feed on junk diet(for instance -cheap novels,thrilers,stories of crime,murder).Rather just like you make sure that your body is given healthy food to eat,similarly yuor mind also wil remain healthy and fit if you make it a point to feed it with worthwhile stuff like professsional magazines related to your field(career).Try reading good books.Also try to practise meditation,spend 30 minutes daily in quiet ,undisturbed thinking.
One can be quiet,calm,serene,unrufffledby circumstances,strong,well-poised,Wel-groomed with Charismatic personality.For that one has to make conscious effforts,investing everyday.

Life is an echo!

Life is an echo,
all comes back,
so give the life,
the best you have.
I truly believe in this as in my life i have seen from my personal experience thata life has its strange way of dealing with people and things.No matter how much you feel like doing bad or thinking ill of others .you should never do it as you will get the same emotion or something bad done to you by others.

How to smile when we really want to cry?

Has this ever happened with you when you felt like crying but you had to smile b'coz you can't show your vulnerability to the whole world.
How does it feel when you felt used and cheated.you helped somebody in good faith and the other callously took advantage of you and then got complelely oblivious of your presence.
That really hurts,but that's how life teaches lesson.you get to realize not to take everybody at their face value.Appearances are indeed deceptive.
Instead of regretting about making those mistakes,lets learn from them and next time we will find ourselves in a better position to judge those people and keep a safe distance from them.But that doesn't mean that we stop helping all the people who are in need.Just be a little more careful
and learn to say no !

Forgive and Forget!

How many of us can move ahead in our lives without carrying the baggage of our pasts.No matter how much we try to negate it ,yhe fact remains that somewhere through the womb of our past our present has been born and for many of us even our future depends on how much we let our past affect our future.the choice is entirely up to us.
How can we come out of those ghosts of our past who desperately chase us and somewhere we give in letting them win, as a consequence to which, we find ourselves always lamenting and cursing others for whatever wrong we perceived happened to us.
Are we not equally guilty for ruining our present and future cribing about our past.what's the solution.let go of the past .Right from the bottom of your heart forgive those people for whatever wrong they had done to you not for them,but for your own peace of mind and for your good health.Believe me your life will be much better and sorted out.

Enough is enough!

How to know when to say "enough is enough". Being good is not synonymous with being weak.when you perceive that people are rather taking advantange of your concerned and caring attitude,draw the line.learn to know the diference between who genuinely values you and needs you or who is simply using you.Don't make yourself so vulnerable and gullible that people start perceiving you weak whenever you have to stand up for yourself,do it.As you only are responsible whether you should be considered "one with a golden heart " or "one with no brains".

You Yourself are the master of your destiny!

I truly believe that as human beings by conditiong our minds to always think positive and by having strong faith in God we can definitely overcome all our hurdles in life and emerge as winner.
There are many people who are cynical about life and in turn whoever comes in contact of those people becomes cynical and pessssimistic himself.Avoid such people just like one avoids pest.They are a menace for our well-being.

Getting up out of the cosy bed!

What a pity that when everybody enjoys that deep early mornins sleep there are a few whom you always find wearing ttheir jogging shoes running or exercising.Those students who get up early in the mr'ng to study and those few of them are diffferent as they have great will-power and they know that it is good for them.
It is not that they are different from others and that they donot like to sleep on a cold mr'ng day but Yes,they still do those things which ordinary people given a chance not to do will never do .
When we get up early we have time for ourselves to think about our life's misssion ,we can plan our day and we can devote our time to read some good book and do some exercise to kep oursrlves fit.

How much do you know yourself?

How much do you know yourself?

Smile

You often have read or heard to smile often as it increases your face value ,so if not for anybody else just smile for your own good.It definitely improves our looks.
Even if you don't have this habit of smiling to often still even if in the beginning you start with not that genuine smile but you will start noticing that 8 out of 10 people do return a smile to you .This means that a small gesture like this can make somebody's day ,especially if he is your subordinate or your child.
People will start liking you more and you will be more popular.
With a little conscios effort on your part this habit of smiling will definitely help you to make more friends and you will be perceived as one of the most amicable people in your circle.

Believe in Yourself

LOVE WHATEVER YOU DO

This the secret of being excellent in your area of work. If you love what you do than you achieve excellence .And who likes mediocrity when you can be the best!

With your indomitable spirit and irrepresible energy,you can persist any goal you are set to acccomplish.

First,there is the need to condition your mind to think that you deserve nothing but the best.Moreover you need to be sincerely and actively interested in whatever you do.

Evolve your own philosophy for work.Many successful people do what they do better than others (improving the quality of their output and do more of what they do)It pays to do more and better.

Lets concentrate on how can we do more and eagerly acccccept the opportunities to do more

Take Your Pick

LIFE IS ALL ABOUT CHOICES
'Deeply fulfilled and highly actualised people simply make wiser choices than others'
How right it appears -"How high you will rise in your life will be determined not by how hard you work but by how well you think"
If we remain open to new ideas,weigh the pros and cons and then make a sound decision,the chances to succeed are bound to rise.
but many of us are stuck up with how to make the right choice and then there is the question of who will tell us "Is it the right choice?"
One thing is certain.just don't follow the 'Herd Mentality'.If most of the people think this is a popular choice that is no guarantee that this is right for us also.Listen to your heart.
What do love the most.Is it reading,playing,listening to good music or singing,dancing or anything which puts a big smile on your face.Think!take your time to think.Think where do you see yourself in the next 10 years.What is your mission or your goal in life.If you know that put that into paper and then plan for your future.
Make wise decision as life is really all about making the right choice.

Make the most of your day!

Life is to short to be little!
Let us live each day as if its the only day we are left with.just give our best in every possible way.the result is bound to follow.
But most of us despite knowing all these, do no good job in changing our life-long habits of procrastination waiting for opportunities to come knocking at their door .In that long wait they do many blunders of not recognising those opportunities which very looked like Hard Work so they dismissed those as just responsibilities and kept on waiting for that elusive break .
Most of the times we are guilty of misssing out these wonderful breaks and blame God and our luck.Instead of waiting for these opportunities to chase us lets chase them.lets be more proactive.
lets expect the best from life if we live our each day as if its our last.

Stop negativity

Its easier said than done.How many of us can really turn a deaf year to cries and wails of people around us and then there are so many who would preach to be positive even when you are deep down depressed with what is happening with your people and around the world.Throughout the world things are not very promising and then nature also doesnot appear to be too kind on us humans.look what has happened in Haiti and if we go by the predictions of astrologers therte is nothing rosy about this new year ..at least for another four months we should act in a very cautios and restrained manner.so......what to do?leave everything to fate or do everything posssible to avert the mishappenings.i think the second option appears to be more prudent
what do you think?

let's face the truth

Everyday a commoner steps out of his home and knows very well that there is no miracle going to happen in his life.Still he reads out his daily astrological predictions and prays to God that someday he'll come out of this mad rat race in which most of us find ourselves helplessly running as we think we have no options left.....so are we really so or there is some silver lining in this dark cloud of utterly frustrating scenario.
firstly lets introspect why are we in the rat race....whether its money or security or fending for our family or our own love for the work.the bitter truth is most of us work for money and we never even notice the connection between money and our being in the rat race.but how can we come out of it?